Saturday, May 31, 2008

how to hold hands

holding hands is the best feeling in the world.. well, at least for me :D

so for those who don't know how to hold hands.. here's how.

steps:

  1. Visualize how it will feel. If you are nervous, think of how good it will feel if the other person holds back.
  2. Take a hold of the other person's hand. While sitting, standing or walking next to that person, grasp his or her hand and lightly squeeze.
  3. Wait for a return squeeze. If they squeeze back, most times, they enjoy your company and don't mind you holding their hand.
  4. Use a hand-holding method. There are two approaches to hold another person's hand.
    • You can either just grasp their hand and hold it (easy to achieve, but harder to stay held on longer); or
    • Interlock fingers, which sometimes takes some work, but because the other person is holding on too, you can stay holding hands longer. Most times, it's better if you just start off with doing the first example until you are sure that the other person is okay with holding hands and will hold on.
  5. If you're absolutely sure that the person you held hands with is enjoying your company, look at him or her straight in the eyes and smile subtly.
tips:
  • Most times, the simple grasp of the hand will do but a more "intimate" way to hold hands is the interlocking finger grasp.
  • With very young kids, offer them your finger for them to grasp their tiny hand around.
  • If you can feel your hand starting to sweat, let go of his or her hand and hold his or her other hand.
  • Smile a lot. Girls and guys love to see a lovely smile.
  • Try not to hold hands with someone you like when you are freezing, because cold hands can be a MAJOR turn-off.
warnings:

If they don't hold back, it may be very embarrassing for both you and the person you are with! Make sure they really like you!

remember. you can only do this with your significant other or a young child. no holding hands with random people and strangers for that matter. you can also hold hands with your close friends. :D

source: wikihow

2 comments:

Maria Banosan said...

bwahahaha holding hands 101 huh..
gitry na nimo na dirk noh? hahaha

Dirkval said...

expert na ko haha :)